Life is like a game; it has no meaning to you until you understand the rules. The way we see life is the way life sees us, your contribution to life determines your outcome in life. Life is not fair because you are not fair to life.
There was a time I was living a very miserable life that life was hard and tough, it was an era of suffering, so bad that because I permitted life to determine what I became, I was living in the dream of my parents and their background kept my back on the ground, I couldn’t become more than their dream until I discovered I am not a product of where I was born or where I live.
Suddenly, I came to the consciousness of my being; I realized things would not change until I make that change. I considered my BEING before my DOING, my being now changed my doings, it is not what I do that really matters anymore, but who I am.
How did I change from mediocrity life to living a life of excellence? First, you need to understand that life is an equation, until you know how to solve it your event may remain as failure. What did I change that changed result?
LIFE is E+R= O
E= Event R=Response O=Outcome
Event in life will always be constant, things that happen suddenly, things we didn’t prepare or plan for, we cannot control event and we can’t change event. Since we cannot change event, then what do we need to change?
Every result is determined by the input. Life can be liken to a computer, garbage in garbage out. Everything you experience in life both internally and externally is the result of how you have responded to a previous event. You are where you are today based on your responses yesterday; how you respond to the event determines the outcome.
You only have control over three things in your life;
1. The thoughts you think
2. The images you visualize
3. The actions you take
Outcome will not change until you have learned to change your response.
If you don’t like your outcomes, change your responses. Remember, Event is constant, you can’t control event but you can change your response to event to change your life. I encourage you to decide success for yourself, be that change you want in your family.
I may not know you personally but there’s something I know about you that there is greatness within you. The past is the past. All that matters now is that from this point forward you choose what’s right, it’s a choice. You are 100% responsible for everything that does or doesn’t happen to you. There is only one person responsible for the quality of the life you live, that person is you. The greatest person in the world is YOU.
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